So ladies, how we all doing? Lately I’ve been feeling so behind with so many deadlines and though operating in the now, subconsciously I’ve been in a constant state of panic as hours turn into days and my to do list languishes incomplete.
This past week has seen all four of our kids get ill at some point, so cue sleepless nights, getting vomited on, way more washing and even more cuddles, which are lovely but not when you are in the middle of seasoning a whole chicken 😩. Even the GP made a joke saying didn’t I see you already this week, scratching his head..I was like before you try and refer me for Munchausen’s syndrome evaluation lemme just explain that you saw another kid last time (and the time before!) and me the other day for my own problems! *don’t come for me doc!*😂
Point of this post….Well although I have been failing to complete as much as I’d have liked to beyond home duties, which has left me frustrated, anxious and downright vex I had to take stock and realise where I’ve been absolutely smashing it! Where I’ve excelled, where I have aced it and where I’ve been queening and that’s been at my motherhood! 💪🏾
Ladies we can’t be everything all at the same time. I’ve written about spinning plates loads of times and where you are BEHIND in one area take a look at your situation and realise it probably means you were AHEAD somewhere else. That somewhere else may not have been first on your list but trust me it’s where you were needed most.
So be encouraged that to be behind normally indicates you are ahead (somewhere!🙌🏾😉). Don’t beat yourself up. Go with the flow and it will all work out. Something’s are just going to have to wait or be shelved completely and that ok because things change and what needs to come first, MUST come first. In my case mumlife! 👧🏾👧🏾👦🏾👶🏾😍🤧😷🤢
HappySunday, as always V 😘