Walk. 

Why is it taking you so long to walk away? That’s my only regret in life – that I did not walk away sooner. Do you realise those days are soon months are soon years… and THE BEST PART is that same thing you knew after 6 months is normally the same thing that eventually makes you leave 5 years later!

I don’t obviously know your situation but can I just assure you, he is not the only one that will ‘fit’ you. He is not the only man that will make you laugh, get your sense of humour or share your dreams. Don’t get stuck because you’re scared of the unknown, don’t settle because you’re scared to be single. What is wrong with being single!!!!! My quest to not be single is what screwed up my life over and over again. Let’s say I was better at choosing outfits than partners!

I should have simply walked but pride didn’t want me to give up or seem as though I had failed. I was consumed by what people would say and didn’t want to give them any ‘tea’ ☕️👰🏾👀… but eventually when it all unravelled I gave out so many cups of tea with the drama that followed, best I had just walked away sooner. 

Why are you staying? Are you a Christian and married- scared of divorce? Don’t be, get good counsel from a leader and seek God. You have not committed a crime so should not be condemned to a life of misery in an unhappy marriage ESPECIALLY if there’s abuse of any kind. Turning up on a Sunday together knowing well he’s the devil in disguise – WALK AWAY. I now have a marriage that is blessed and fruitful. My mama said she’s married to Jesus! That’s up to her… I wanted to try again. #differentgeneration 

Are you engaged or going down that route but are already seeing ‘red flags’⛳️😳Please, please if you are switched on enough to see them before you say I do, then RUN FOR YOUR LIFE! 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️. You will get over it and when you are enjoying your singleness, focusing on yourself, living life you’ll be singing hallelujah! If and when the right partner comes along along after that season, trust me. You will KNOW the difference. 😍😍🙌🏾… Happy Sunday from your girl…. V 😘

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