We Mum Hard!

When hubby’s away…. πŸŽ’πŸπŸ₯˜πŸš˜πŸ“šπŸ“’πŸ•πŸ•–πŸ•šπŸ•šπŸ˜…πŸ˜²πŸ˜΄πŸ—£πŸ€·πŸΎβ€β™€οΈπŸ™‹πŸΎπŸƒπŸ½β€β™€οΈπŸ‘―πŸ‘©πŸ½β€βœˆοΈπŸ‘©πŸ½β€βš•οΈπŸ‘©πŸ½β€πŸ³. I’m wearing All the hats πŸ˜‚πŸ™πŸΎ. .

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I gave up my work to be a full time/ stay at home mum/ house wife. We worked out that it didn’t make sense paying for childcare, because it would mean all my salary went on and it didn’t make sense. He earned more so I hung up my apron (florist 🌺) I speak to a lot of mums and whether we work or are based in the home we ‘MUM HARD’. There is no right or wrong. There is no better. I’ve had to give up many opportunities because my husband couldn’t hold the kids and it’s ok because we are a team. This is my season to raise these babies and his season to do what he gotta do. I hold the forte down while he builds it. I’m not a traditional girl but I guess I am. I have no point to prove, no feminist why should I stay at home story to tell. No, he’s better at career and I’m better at the 10,000 things a wife and mother do everyday (plus I still help him with work-it’s the family business-so all hands on deck!). 

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This morning whether you are packing lunches or preparing a power point presentation (or both!) just own it. Don’t compare yourself to any other mum. I love my role I’m happy I can devote every minute to these babies but I’m also happy and dancing when dad gets home and I can pop out or just go to my room and have ‘a moment’ 
In these uncertain times for families it’s all about planning and working out what’s best. Forget the news reports, the playground chatter, the Facebook stories. Just do what’s best for your household. Your kids will always know you are the best mum in the world! 

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Happy Monday! .. V 😘

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